Ready to take a big leap of change?
I believe everyone in the world should take the BIG Leap and do something extraordinary with their lives and lean into their dreams. As an executive coach, I see this challenge occur over and over with my clients.
My niece Margo Hayes made history this year and she is now the first female in the world out of 3.5+ billion women to ever climb La Rambla a famous route in Spain rated a 5.15. For those of you not familiar with climbing- this is as hard as it gets- something you imagine Spiderman doing as he climbs up a glass building.
I wondered what was Margo’s secret that had her do something that no female had ever accomplished before and only a hand full of men? What was it that had her take that big leap both figuratively and physically? Can that secret be shared and everyone can apply it to their lives to lean into their dreams and make the ordinary extraordinary.
Is there a big leap you want to take in your life? Do you want to do something you have never done before perhaps because you went to fear? I do. In January, I was let go from my job after 26 years in mortgage finance and now is my opportunity to take a big leap and try something new. So I recently started my own executive coaching company focusing on women in the mortgage industry. Professional and personal development has been my passion for over 10 years But I will be honest with you…. I am scared to death!
When Margo decided she was going to do this climb La Ramble she didn’t think, “Can I do it?” She thought, “ How will I do it?” Think about the phrase… “ Can I….” it insinuates a bit of doubt. Asking it is possible. Whereas how do I … Instead it insinuates, “I will- and that you only need a plan. Margo decided …quote” If it was possible for them, it was possible for me”
Looking at the how there are two key elements that will get you to your dream:
The First Element: Preparation
In Margo’s case, she trained for years and spent hours of time in the gym and on the rock wall. I remember when we went on a family rafting trip and as all of the adults sat around the fire drinking wine Margo had set up a “finger” pull up bar on a tree branch and was doing sets with a 10-gallon jug of water tied to her waist. That’s is the dedication and that is what it takes. She had a map of the route on her wall and she studied it intensely – she said she went through the climb in her mind 1000 times. Visualizing the future. Now that I want to start my own company, I need to prepare. That may look like writing a business plan, setting goals, writing put action steps in place and Visualizing the future. I need to prepare
The Second Element: Persistence
The second element is persistence. Did Margo succeed on her first attempt? No, She tried 16 times and it wasn’t until the 17th try that she succeeded.
She is one of the most tenacious people I know. Unstoppable. Learning from mistakes and failure to be better the next time. When I start my business I need to push through failure, get past rejection over and over learning each time to get closer to success.
The purpose in life for each of us…you and me … is to grow and evolve. We can each do this by taking the Big leap out of your comfort zone being prepared and persistence. Every one of us is on their own personal journey and we have a choice to take the big leap and follow our dreams and although it may sound simple – it’s not easy.